Trauma-Informed Experiential Psychotherapy
Trauma Therapy
When the Past Becomes the Present
Trauma is not only what happened to us, but what continues to live within us long after an experience is over. Experiences that could not be fully processed can remain alive in memory, the body, our emotional responses, and our expectations of ourselves and others. When something in the present touches one of these old wounds, the boundary between past and present can blur. We may know intellectually that we are here, now, with a different person or in a different situation, while some younger part of us is still experiencing the world through what happened then.
Much of experiential trauma therapy is therefore also memory work. IFS works with younger parts frozen in the past; EMDR and EFT tapping with memories that still carry emotional charge; and Coherence Therapy with the emotional learnings underlying present symptoms. Different languages, different methods, but a shared premise: unresolved experiences from the past can continue to shape how we experience the present.
Working with Trauma
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Triggers & Patterns
We begin by noticing the situations, relationships, emotions, and bodily responses that activate old patterns in the present.
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Memory & the Past
Experiential approaches can help us trace present reactions back to earlier experiences, memories, and younger parts that still carry their emotional impact.
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Integration
As painful experiences are processed, the past can begin to feel more like the past, creating greater freedom in how we respond to ourselves, others, and the present.
Trauma Can Take Many Forms
Trauma can originate in childhood experiences, developmental wounds, and early attachment relationships, shaping how we come to experience ourselves, other people, and the world. But trauma is not limited to childhood. Loss, betrayal, relational trauma, violence, illness, accidents, medical experiences, or other overwhelming events in adulthood can also leave a lasting imprint.
Trauma can also have cultural, collective, and intergenerational dimensions. Experiences of displacement, war, oppression, migration, or collective loss can reverberate through families and communities across generations. Whatever its origins, the effects of trauma can continue to influence our emotions, relationships, sense of self, and responses to the present.
Healing Is Not Forgetting
Trauma work is not about erasing the past or making painful experiences disappear. The memory remains part of our history, but our relationship to it can change. What once feels immediate and emotionally charged can increasingly become something we remember rather than something we continue to relive.
A few common questions
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That’s completely fine. Trauma work does not require a complete autobiographical memory. We can begin with what is available now, such as an emotion, bodily response, image, belief, recurring pattern, or fragment of memory, and work from there.
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No. Trauma can develop from a single overwhelming event, but it can also emerge from repeated relational or developmental experiences that may not have seemed “traumatic” at the time. You don’t need to decide whether your experience qualifies as trauma before coming to therapy. -
No. You are always in control of what you choose to share. Experiential trauma work can begin with what is happening in the present, and we can approach difficult memories gradually and at a pace that feels manageable.
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